Monday, June 8, 2009

Letting Go (Part 3)

I am an avid reader; books are my lifeline to the world. I love all types of books: fiction, non-fiction, poetry, prose, it doesn't matter. When I find a book that I love, I return to it again and again, like a familiar friend. Similarly, when I find a book that is potentially life-changing, I can't seem to stop talking about it.

My latest find?

Codependence and the Power of Detachment: How to Set Boundaries and Make Your Life Your Own by Karen Casey.

"When we give up judging others, we become accountable for our own behavior and let others -- spouse, family, coworkers -- be accountable for themselves. The power of detachment is a power anyone can claim. It's the power of sanity, of peace, of finding our own inner strength." (from the blurb on the back)

Wow. Doesn't that just say it all?

4 comments:

  1. Thinking of you, friend. And so proud of you for trying to figure all this out. . . I hope you find - or have found - some answers.

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  2. Hoping this book is leading you to some answers.

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  3. I'm also a big reader. Once I get a name/label for something, I'll read all I can about it. I bought several more books about verbal abuse once I got that one figured out about me and TR. And this book above? It's one of the _three_ I limited myself to buying after I had a "label" for what I had already been working on in myself for awhile.

    I don't know what I'd do without the books...

    I'm glad you're finding a direction to work in. I have a good suggestion for another book if you're interested (for when you're done with this one). :)

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  4. Love that quote. My mom always told me that the only behavior you can control is your own. I never really understood that until recently, but it can be pretty liberating.

    Thinking of you....

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