Friday, January 8, 2010

Miscarriage Confirmed (aka How I'm Feeling)

Dear God,

Fuck you too.

Sincerely,
Jo
Posted by Jo at 9:17 AM

57 comments:

  1. MintaJanuary 8, 2010 at 9:39 AM

    *hugs*

    So, so, so sorry. I know there aren't words, and there isn't anything that anyone can do make it feel better. Please know that there are people thinking about you and giving God the finger in your name today.

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  2. NicoleJanuary 8, 2010 at 9:49 AM

    Oh, my dear Jo. I am so very sorry.

    Love to you and Mo--we're here if you need anything.

    ~nicole

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  3. NinaJanuary 8, 2010 at 9:52 AM

    Oh, hon, I'm so sorry. I hope you feel better (at least physically) soon.

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  4. JW MoxieJanuary 8, 2010 at 9:54 AM

    It's just so damned unfair.

    My words feel so impotent, and yet they'll have to be enough. I'm thinking of you, Jo. (((hugs)))

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  5. One Who UnderstandsJanuary 8, 2010 at 9:56 AM

    I'm sorry Jo. There are no words.

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  6. TraceyJanuary 8, 2010 at 10:01 AM

    I know I'm supposed to be all encouraging and wise with my words, but really what I am is MAD AS HELL. WTF. Like it's not bad enough to be infertile? I know - let's play a cruel joke on her too!? UGH. I wish there was an individual resposible so that I could punch them in the face. I'm pissed.

    Also, my feelings won't be hurt if you decide to stop reading my posts (like you're worried about my feelings right now...). I wouldn't be able to read yours if the situation were reversed. But please check in once in a while in case we end up in the same boat - I'll need you then!

    Scream and cry and let it all out. Tell your "supportive" co-workers to go F-themselves and try to take care of yourself.

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  7. AmandaJanuary 8, 2010 at 10:15 AM

    I'm so sorry. I wish I had better words, but there are none.

    (((hugs)))

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  8. HillaryJanuary 8, 2010 at 10:22 AM

    I am so very sorry. :( :(

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  9. PriscillaJanuary 8, 2010 at 10:27 AM

    I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine the amount of tears. I hope you're able find some form of strength in this very, very sad time. This is supremely unfair. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  10. KellyJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:20 AM

    I'm so, so incredibly sorry.

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  11. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:25 AM

    So very sorry. Kim

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  12. Melissa GJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:25 AM

    I'm so very sorry for you Jo. My heart hurts for you.

    (((hugs)))

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  13. Baby On MindJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:33 AM

    I'm so sorry.......

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  14. LisaJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:54 AM

    I'm so very, very sorry your going though this.

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  15. KaitJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:56 AM

    I know there are no words at a time like this. All I can say is that my heart breaks for you and I'm keeping you in the my thoughts.

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  16. MelissiaJanuary 8, 2010 at 12:05 PM

    Jo, I am so very sorry, thinking of you both today and in the days to come.

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  17. NixyJanuary 8, 2010 at 12:19 PM

    so so sorry. thinking of you today.

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  18. IdgieJanuary 8, 2010 at 12:24 PM

    Shit. I'm so sorry Jo. :(

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  19. Which BoxJanuary 8, 2010 at 12:59 PM

    I am so sorry. So so sorry (and sorry for a hopeful message yesterday). Thinking about you today.

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  20. TallyJanuary 8, 2010 at 1:26 PM

    ((hugs))

    Please, be good to yourself. I'm so very sorry this happened, and that it was such a shitty ride.

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  21. VA BlondieJanuary 8, 2010 at 2:10 PM

    I am so sorry. Sending you virtual (((hugs))).

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  22. JulieJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:11 PM

    Oh no Jo. I'm so very sorry. Did you lose both babies? I hope you that you will find comfort during this difficult time. (((HUGS)))

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  23. 6c6f6c796f75617265616a6f6b65January 8, 2010 at 3:13 PM

    Jo, Nixy sent me over to your blog. I have no word's except, I'm sorry.

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  24. KatieJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:17 PM

    I am so sorry. You have every right to be angry with God or whomever. This is awful.

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  25. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:30 PM

    so so sorry

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  26. KristinJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:37 PM

    I am so very sorry Jo.

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  27. ElisabethJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:41 PM

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  28. kJanuary 8, 2010 at 3:50 PM

    Oh man. I'm so sorry. I hate this. I'm thinking of you. **hugs**

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  29. BellaJanuary 8, 2010 at 4:03 PM

    I'm so very, very sorry, Jo. I hope you get some answers as to what happened. Big ((HUGS))

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  30. JessicaJanuary 8, 2010 at 4:27 PM

    This is just not fair. My thoughts are with you!!

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  31. 'Murgdan'January 8, 2010 at 4:35 PM

    I am so so sorry.

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  32. CyndiJanuary 8, 2010 at 5:00 PM

    That is horrible news. was really rooting for you! so sorry!

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  33. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2010 at 5:11 PM

    Oh no. I've been there, and it sucks and hurts and is so very, very sad. My thoughts are with you. I am so sorry.

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  34. Quiet DreamsJanuary 8, 2010 at 5:59 PM

    I'm here.
    I'm sorry.
    This sucks.

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  35. MissyJanuary 8, 2010 at 6:34 PM

    I am so sorry.

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  36. SerendipityJanuary 8, 2010 at 7:14 PM

    Oh Jo, I'm so very sorry.

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  37. UnknownJanuary 8, 2010 at 11:10 PM

    Don't know you, but I wanted to say..

    Damn. I'm sorry.

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  38. NicoleJanuary 9, 2010 at 2:35 AM

    Oh Jo, I'm sooo sorry. It's so horrible and awful. This happened to me after my first IVF so I can completely empathize with you right now. I'm so sorry for the anguish and loss and million of other things you are experiencing right now. I'm so so sorry that this happened, and there isn't anything anyone can do to make it better. Just know that we are all sending you our love.

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  39. RELHJanuary 9, 2010 at 7:45 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. It's just not fair.

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  40. BarefootJanuary 9, 2010 at 1:05 PM

    I'm so, so sorry.

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  41. JendeisJanuary 9, 2010 at 3:42 PM

    I'm so sorry Jo.

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  42. MicheleJanuary 9, 2010 at 5:08 PM

    There just arent words. So sorry...

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  43. Secret SloperJanuary 9, 2010 at 5:43 PM

    I am so deeply sorry. This is so painful. I know how you feel. I'm thinking of you.

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  44. AnonymousJanuary 9, 2010 at 7:41 PM

    Unfair.....
    I am sorry for your loss.

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  45. AnonymousJanuary 9, 2010 at 9:12 PM

    I'm so sorry. Even those infamous 4 letter words aren't enough to convey the massively unfair suckitude of this. Hugs to you and Mo.

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  46. AnonymousJanuary 9, 2010 at 10:35 PM

    I'm so so sorry.

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  47. RebeccaJanuary 10, 2010 at 11:23 AM

    There are no words that will take away the horrendous pain and emptiness you are feeling, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm here. Holding your hand. Crying with you. Praying for you. Holding you in my heart.
    I'm so very utterly sorry Jo.

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  48. AnonymousJanuary 10, 2010 at 7:22 PM

    i am so very sorry. :(

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  49. KJanuary 10, 2010 at 10:06 PM

    I wrote this exact post a month ago. Much love to you.

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  50. TrinityJanuary 10, 2010 at 10:44 PM

    I'm so genuinely sorry, Jo. Thinking of you...

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  51. Rebel With.A.CauseJanuary 10, 2010 at 11:32 PM

    I am so sorry Jo. Hugs to you and Mo.

    Erica

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  52. ..alJanuary 10, 2010 at 11:57 PM

    Raising a finger@God.

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  53. RachJanuary 11, 2010 at 6:07 AM

    I'm so sorry. God's caught the craps from lil miss Infertility Fairy and is shitting over people again, I'm sorry you were one of them.

    I hope the heartache lessens with each passing day.

    xxx

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  54. CeliaJanuary 11, 2010 at 10:52 AM

    I am so very sorry.

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  55. the misfitJanuary 11, 2010 at 11:17 AM

    So I'm really glad I now have your blog to add to my blogroll (and I love your header graphic). But I'm so, so sorry to hear about your loss. I've just "met" you, and I don't know what to say. You and your husband, and your babies, are in my prayers.

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  56. ChickenpigJanuary 11, 2010 at 1:39 PM

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's happened to so many of us, and it's so damned cruel. Right now is about as bad as it gets, which means that slowly things will get better. There are many, many of us who are here to reach down to give a hand up out of the shit valley. With my deepest sympathy. from LFCA

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  57. Suzy, Not a Fertile MyrtleJanuary 11, 2010 at 1:52 PM

    I am so sorry.
    LFCA

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